As much as you
and your employees don't want to suffer from stress and burnout, you could be
the "cause" of the stress. Here are some things to watch out for:
- Setting
unrealistic goals. Imposing highly ambitious goals on employees will daunt and
discourage, rather than motivate, them. If you have tough goals they must
achieve, break them into smaller parts before presenting them.
- Looking at the
dark side. If you always look at the downside or harp on what's wrong - and
allow others to do it - you can bet employees will become de-motivated and
stressed. Instead, mention the bright side of every tough circumstance you and
your people face. Encourage employees to suggest changes for things they don't
like.
- Us vs. them talk.
Managers often don't want employees angry at them, so they unintentionally
remove themselves from potential guilt. (For instance, "I fought for your
pay raise, but you know HR makes the final decision.") Leaders need to
stand behind decisions they've made or have been made regarding their
employees.
- Allowing some
people to slide. Managers who let poor performers get by or allow bad behavior
to continue will derail good employees. Confront those issues until they're
fixed or gone.
- Talking more than
you listen. Whether you deliver bad news or offer an opposing opinion, your
employees will want to vent about it. Let them, because that may be all they
need to get over it.
- Jumping to
conclusions. One person rarely knows how another person feels, so avoid telling
employees how they should react or feel in any situation. Let them react and
then talk about solutions.
- Poor listening.
Nothing is more irritating than not being heard. Paraphrase, take notes or do
anything to show employees you care.
- Reacting to anger
or anxiety. This only adds fuel to the fire. Instead, keep an even tone and
deal with similar situations uniformly.
- Bad habits. Ask a
trusted colleague (or loved one), what habits you have that can get on people's
nerves.
DIGGING DEEPER
So, are your
employees stressed out? Find out what you can do by reading the Executive
Report: Why Good People Burn Out – and How You Can Stop It.

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